Puppy Play Party

Important details about the Party on Saturday, October 28, 2023


UPDATED INFORMATION FOR COVID-19:

COVID-19: If you tested positive for COVID-19 since 10/07/2023, then you need to show proof if a negative test after 10/25/2023. You can get a home test kit at CVS or Walgreens. Contact @djtatmatt on Telegram for specific directions on how to provide the proof of the test results.

Remember that we do require that everyone show proof of their original COVID-19 vaccination and boosters 1 and 2 in order to attend the HLP Party. Those who have previously shown their vaccination proof are listed on the "Who's attending the party" page. If you have been vaccinated, please bring that proof with you so we can record it before it becomes mandated.

HLP does NOT yet mandate the September 2023 booster.

HLP is serious about the health and safety of our members. Considering that social distancing is contrary to the reason for this party, we need to take extra steps that are more aggressive than what's recommended by NJ and the CDC.

Again, if we have your vaccination information saved from a previous party, you won't have to show it again until there's a need for another booster shot.

This HLP Party is for registered HLP members and their guests. Therefore, you must first log into your HLP account on this site before you visit the GET TICKETS link below.

If, on Saturday, October 28th, you feel the slightest bit off, sniffly, headache, achy, or legitimately sick, please contact @djtatmatt on Telegram ASAP.

Honesty and transparency is highly valued in HLP. If you have to cancel your ticket for any reason OTHER than your health, then the normal refund rules will apply, which is to say, your reservation will be applied to the next party. Temporary Suspension will be given to anyone caught lying about their health simply to receive a refund.

IMPORTANT: HLP mandates proof of full vaccination AND the first two boosters against COVID-19 as of January 10, 2022.

HLP recognizes that some people have claimed medical or religious exemptions against vaccinations, however, for the health and safety of all of our members, we urge you to your healthcare provider and to reconsider the reasons you are not vaccinated. Please contact @djtatmatt on Telegram if you have a medical exemption from the COVID-19 vaccine. We'd really hate to exclude you from events at HLP HQ until after the COVID-19 pandemic has ended.



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What is this party all about?

It's a fetish party, not an orgy. What's the difference? Well, at an orgy everyone checks their clothes and walks around looking for action, then they leave after getting their fill. At a fetish party we wear our gear all night long and participate in different fetish scenes. Those scenes could include the use of:

  • Mummification
  • Vac Bed
  • Bondage gear and ropes
  • Bondage furniture
  • Hot Wax Play
  • Sling
  • Moshing
  • Puppy toys
  • Dark room with sling
  • Beds and rooms for private scenes

What's included?

  • There's a place to change and keep your belongings
  • Shower and towels
  • Shower shot
  • Light snacks
  • Hot food at midnight
  • Open bar
  • 3 floors of fun
YOU MUST HAVE PROOF OF THE COVID-19 VACCINE TO ATTEND THIS PARTY.

Where is it?

The location is in Totowa, NJ. You'll get the exact location printed on the ticket when you register and pay.

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You can get a hint of the location if you open the Google Maps App on your smartphone and type in "Totowa, NJ." Google Maps App, not Google Search or Google search through a browser. Totowa is a small town. Plenty of parking on the side streets.

Cost and Time?

COST:
The October 21st party is $30 (plus PayPal fee)
Arrive late to the 21st (after midnight) $15 cash at the door.

The October 28st party is $30 (plus PayPal fee)
Double party ticket is $45 (plus PayPal fee)



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TIME: 6PM - 4AM (Fetish parties go all night long.)

LIMITED ATTENDANCE: 100 people max. All tickets are being sold through the presales on the website.

There is an option if you are traveling from far away and need a place to sleep. There are a limited number of Petslumber spots available. Petslumber is a safe way to play and enjoy without the worry of driving home. Sunday brunch is also included in Petslumber. Read more about Petslumber on the registration page.

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Attendance is limited to 100 people.

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Puppy Play Party
Attendance is limited to 100 people.

  GET TICKETS HERE  

Puppy Play Party
Attendance is limited to 100 people.

  GET TICKETS HERE  

Puppy Play Party
Attendance is limited to 100 people.

  GET TICKETS HERE  

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Simplified HLP Party Rules

Party Rules

  1. YOU MUST HAVE PROOF OF THE COVID-19 VACCINE TO ATTEND THIS PARTY

  2. This is a safe space

  3. Leave your grumpy pants at the door.

  4. No Shade Allowed - Celebrate Each Other's Differences or be thrown out and banned

  5. No GHB, G, meth, or any type of party "chems" on the property.

  6. Consent is important! Read the rules for the Dark Room.

  7. You can watch, but don't enter another scene unless invited.

  8. House safety words: "Yellow" (or two barks) for slow down; "Red" (or three barks) for stop.

  9. "No," "Stop," or Safe Words Must Be Responded To Immediately.

  10. Pup headspace can get deep, so please watch out for one another's safety even if you are not usually a handler.

  11. Indoor smoking room, don't smoke outside

  12. Have fun

  13. Don't drive home drunk, you can crash at the house as long as space is still available.

Full Rules for this party are found here.


Party Sexual Conduct


SECTION 1: Back/Dark Room Environment

Every person at the party MUST respect one another’s boundaries. Even if someone is wearing a green wristband, you still should negotiate your scenes and pay attention to signals/clues of interest.

If you want to have a scene with someone, don't be afraid to just ask. You will find a “Dark Room” on the first floor.

Normally, when you're at a bar, if someone pinches your ass you have a right to get upset because a bar is not a sexual location.

In a "Dark Room" the rules of consent are based more on hand signals than verbal. Dark/Back room at a sex bars are dimly lit places intended for some type of action. You can barely see and it's assumed that you are giving consent to be touched as soon as you walk back there. It's dark, so the touch on the waist, hand, tap on the ass, etc. is how you get someone’s attention.

In the Dark Room, if you don't want to be touched by someone then you simply AND POLITELY remove their hand/mouth/dick from touching you.

Again, this is a POLITE pushing away using your hand. No slapping, no yelling, no complaining that you didn’t give consent to touch/look/watch,  because you actually did  as soon as you walked into a dark area designated for sex. Dark Rooms are not intended for tourists or those who are curious. Those going into the dark room are going in for a purpose, and you must respect that.

SECTION 2: Consent Withdrawal in Back Room Environment

IF YOU ARE THE ONE BEING POLITELY PUSHED AWAY THEN DO NOT TRY A SECOND TIME!!! This indicates the withdrawal of consent. AGAIN, DO NOT TRY A SECOND TIME

If you get pushed away, then you need to wait for a hand signal or other obvious physical move (like sticking a crotch in your face) from that person before you are allowed to re-engage.

ALTHOUGH THE PARTY HOUSE IS NOT PITCH BLACK there are dark areas and there is one official Dark Room with a sling.

SECTION 3: Everything is wide open

Because all rooms at the party are open, everyone attending should expect to be a bit of an exhibitionist. That's just the way the non private nature of this party is. You can't get upset while someone watches. If you are the one being watched, then you can offer some type of head nod or hand signal to invite others in. If you are the one watching, you must wait for the head nod or the inviting hand wave for you to join in.

SECTION 4: No Hiding

Many of the attendees are dealing with their own anxiety or shyness. This very common for all of us. Just as much as you might want to go hide in the bedroom or ballpit and be alone, that's not why you came to this party.

DO NOT GO HIDING WHILE THERE'S AN ACTIVITY HAPPENING. COME WATCH AND WAIT FOR THE INVITE WITH A HEAD NOD OR HAND GESTURE AS EXPLAINED ABOVE.

SECTION 5: Group Pile Conduct

If a group puppy pile happens, you have to be respectful of who is in the pile and who you are touching. Just because there are 10 naked pups on top of the bed it does not mean you have consent to touch all of them.

If you were pushed away from someone 10 hours ago  that means you do not have consent to touch the person . That also means you are NOT allowed to reach across 8 naked bodies to touch me in that puppy pile.

SECTION 6: Consent Withdrawal Prior To Attendance

It is good to negotiate play scenes before the party. However, if someone specifically tells you that they are not your type for physical play, then they are withdrawing consent from you. In other words, you have ZERO consent to do anything with them other than appropriate etiquette between friends.

If you feel you must withdraw consent from someone prior to the party, please do so privately, and in a respectful manner. If you have been told "no" before the party started, then do not try to sneak a feel during the party.

Couples often attend the party together, and they may have an arrangement to only play together. You are required to respect all couples, whether they are married, dating, Alpha/beta, Handler/pup, or any other dynamic. Ask them for their personal rules and get permission before touching them.

If you decide to withdraw consent from everyone prior to attendance, then you should reconsider attending the party so as not to create accidental uncomfortable arguments.

SECTION 7: TL:DR

At the party, be present. Don't hide. When puppy headspace gets going the hooman verbal speak is lost. Look for the hand gestures and head nodes as invitations to join.

At the party, be conscious of when your hand/mouth/dick is pushed away. That's a withdrawal of consent. You must stop your advances immediately.

Lastly... none of us is born knowing how to be good at sex, or last long. We have to experiment and learn. Those of us with a little more experience could teach those with less.  If you want to help someone improve their technique, be honest and tell them what you like better.  If you are given directions to improve your technique, take them without being insulted.

In all honesty, there's a lot in here. If everyone is confused, we could act this out and make a drinking game out of it.